Wednesday, May 14, 2014

Friends without Kids

Enjoyed this morning read. After having kids I feel like my social life has gone out the window. I realize that I don't see or talk to friends as often and rely on social stalking that I can do at any hour of the day to stay connected. Sad, I know. But, if you are one of the few reading this blog you aren't missing a thing!haha

And to my friends without kids, I haven’t forgotten you. I’m just incredibly busy and I’d love to see you if there is ever a break. Or as this article says, come on over to our house at 7AM at breakfast. This is the best time for no meltdowns with the kids!
1. The kid's schedule is more important than one would think. 
2. Kids put their parents on a schedule of their own. 
3. We like hanging out with our kids.  Even if you see our kid act like a total a**hole, crying every five minutes or bouncing off the walls like a human pinball, at home there are more instances than you can imagine that result in us smiling the biggest smiles, laughing the loudest laughs or otherwise NOT being annoyed with our own offspring. This can be hard to imagine, I know.
4. "Just bring the kids" is an option. But it is one that sucks.  We just can't focus on you very well when we have to simultaneously keep an eye on our kids, making sure they don't choke, drown in a randomly placed vat of water or get a head injury bumping into the pointy corner of a table.
5. Seemingly benign household chores suddenly seem to consume our lives.
6. Kids go to sleep pretty damn early.  It's easy to look at our kids and say, "Oh, they don't even look tired!" -- and you'd be right. That's why we're leaving NOW, before they have a total meltdown and lose their sh*t. We can preemptively sense these things, like some animals can sense earthquakes before they register on any seismograph.
7. Leisure time is so limited that we tend to spend it on ourselves (often by ourselves). 
8. Sometimes we just need to idly linger. 

And here's a funny video about it all!


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